Just The Way It Is...
What is wrong with the human race today? Why are people so quick to judge and criticize people or things that they don't even know? Just because a book cover looks like the most beautiful thing you have ever seen doesn't mean the story is going to be any good. And we have all been through this... the movie trailer looks so amazing that we couldn't wait to race to the theater and overpay to see it only for it to be a major disappointment!!
Well, the same goes for people. Just because someone appears to be physically normal doesn't mean they are not really sick. Just because someone isn't smiling, doesn't mean that they are not happy and love to laugh all the time. And just because someone doesn't seem to fit into your idea of the way they should be doesn't mean that they are not someone else's everything.
So, I guess my point is this... why are people so judgemental and so quick to hate someone that they have never even taken the time to talk to or even get to know? We all have heard the saying that people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones, well you can't be on the outside looking in and claim to know what goes on inside someone's household either.
Has this world become so small minded thriving so much on drama and gossip that it has to hear something and just run with it to all of their family and friends just to feel like they have some hot off the press juicy piece of info? Is it so that they can feel more superior about themselves without even taking the time to know the truth, or even research the facts for themselves? We all have that one friend who will do anything for attention because they crave it and need it, just like the people that will cause physical illness and harm to their children and loved ones so they can feel like center of attention. Well in the same perverse sort of way, some peoples lives are so miserable that they have to create drama in everyone else's lives to feel better about themselves.
Wake up people! This is very important so pay close attention. It is time for all of you to get off your high horses and stop drawing conclusions and creating stories that simply don't even exist. If you keep walking around with your noses in the air, eventually you will drown. If you cannot take the time to personally talk with and get to know someone for who they are, then what in the hell gives you the right to take time to make up stories about them and destroy their character? What is a little time to get to know someone, it doesn't cost you anything. Are you afraid that you might get to know someone who has a heart of gold and might end up being one of the best people you have ever met in your entire life? Maybe by getting to know someone, you might just find you have found a new friend... good grief that would be just awful for you wouldn't it? Stop being a wagon rider, going by other people's gossip or smart remarks, stop causing drama, stop being homewreckers, sheesh how about GROW a pair and think for yourself!!
The wonderful life that you think you live is not suitable for everyone, and if it is good for you then great, but that doesn't mean it is everyone's idea of happiness. If your life isn't great and you are not happy, I am sorry to hear that, but then pack your stuff and move the f*&k along and stop trying to split up the people who are completely happy just to fill the empty void in your miserable life for five minutes. (and you know thats about all it lasts till your off to someone else's life to make their's miserable)
Oh, and for the record, NOBODY on this earth has the right to judge anyone, only God has the right to judge... and this goes for everyone including those of you who think your shit don't stink... you better watch what you do in this life and how you choose to live it because everything can change in a instant, tomorrow is not promised to anyone. AND... no matter how high you think your pedastool is, and how low someone is beneath you, WE will all have a judgement day and you might be able to lie, scheme and swindle your way out of things down here on earth, but good luck trying to pull that when it is your turn to face God because he will see right through your crap!!
